Many, many months ago, I decided to start writing a little blog. In hopes of sharing a bright, colorful outlook on life, I optimistically named it Kodachrome Days. I wrote a handful of posts but never shared them (you will see them some day). Not really sure how to do a blog, I never quite got it off the ground. And then life, no LIFE, interfered.
A freak injury to my husband, Norm, and I became 24/7 caregiver with all its attendant stress and constant worry. An insane deadly virus slammed shut the doors to the outside world, isolating us and making me fear for our very lives. As the number of deaths rose, the fear and isolation grew. Partisanship and virulent political campaigns spewed hate and birthed concern for the very survival of our free country. Riots and protests, mammoth widespread fires, and stifling record heat made the outside world more unwelcome My whole world was changing, and somehow, I never got back to that happy place that inspired thoughts of joy, optimism, and Kodachrome.
Instead, the Kodachrome that colored my life before faded under the unrelenting weight of negativity, anger, hate and, yes, outright fear, that poured forth everywhere I looked …
Black lives matter! No, blue lives matter! No, white lives matter! NO, ALL lives matter!!! MY life matters!!!
My opponent is a liar! No, MY opponent is a liar and a cheat AND a crook!
Wear a mask. No, masks are evil!
Stay home, hide, don’t open the doors, sanitize everything! No, it’s all a hoax! Take a chance.
Live! No, you could die! Be afraid, be VERY afraid!
A few days ago, I saw photos of the aftermath of the devastating fires that have been ravaging our west coast. All that was left of a town were layers of ash and rubble reminiscent of a nuclear holocaust. Every vestige of color had been leached from that sad landscape. And I realized that is what I had allowed my life to become … grey and hopeless. Kodachrome had morphed into stark black and white.
But with that realization came a newfound determination to re-discover the color I have always found in life. It comes shining through in small moments of gratitude. All I have to do is simply open my senses to the Kodachrome of those moments. The brilliant color has never really gone completely away. It has just been hidden behind a rather powerful filter. The color still surrounds me if I just open my eyes and look.
So what do I mean? What am I so grateful for?
Think of the sturdy little boy that is my nephew as he starts school, excited, wide eyed, full of life … and cancer free after a brutal battle.
Think of a small black kitten born with only two legs yet growing strong, still tumbling and playing and doing all the things any kitten does. What disability? Think of the kind-hearted woman who rescued him and saved his life.
Think of the mute button on a tv remote than can instantaneously silence the never-ending clamor of negative political ads that dominate the airwaves. At least you do not HAVE to hear them.
Think of a friend finding the courage, after months of pandemic-fueled anxiety and fear-filled isolation, to finally step outside her home to get an all-important flu shot.
Think of the thousands and thousands of public servants who do respect all lives, who unselfishly serve their country, who save lives every day while risking their own.
Think of the kind, caring respite care worker who, with simple acts of kindness, boosts the health and spirits of a man facing the unwelcome challenges of age while giving comfort to a woman on the edge of despair.
Think of the return to a small semblance of normal that comes in a simple breakfast with a much-loved daughter.
And finally think of the Kodachrome. It IS out there. I am not meant to live in black and white. None of us are. In coming weeks, I intend to find the color again. I will share my discoveries here with you. But what about you? Where is the Kodachrome in your life? Please share it. You might just help someone turn off the black and white filter that has crept in on them. Like Dorothy stepping into Oz, maybe we can put the hope, the optimism, the positivity, the brilliant KODACHROME back into our world!